One good thing to share
A thoughtful recommendation is less about having excellent taste and more about paying attention to someone else. There is a particular pleasure in receiving a recommendation with your name almost written into it. Not a long list of essential things to catch up on, but one small discovery accompanied by a reason: this made me think of that project you are working on, or this passage felt like the conversation we had last week. Sharing something well begins with considering where it might land. A friend in the middle of a demanding week may appreciate a song more than a forty-page essay. A collaborator stuck on a problem might need a strange, unrelated reference. The value is not simply in the thing itself. It is in the attention that connects it to a particular person. The next time you want to send a link, add two sentences. Say what stayed with you, then say why you thought of them. Leave room for them to pass without reporting back. A recommendation should feel like an open door, not another assignment disguised as a gift.