Shaping Factor | Influence of Self Worth | How to Handle Healthily |
Early Experiences | Secure attachments, positive feedback, sense of belonging foster positive self-beliefs. Inconsistent care, harsh criticism, or exclusion erode self-worth | • Therapy to heal attachment wounds and reframe childhood experiences. • Build secure attachments with supportive people in adulthood. • Practice self-compassion and counteracting the negative inner critic. |
Life Events | Successes and overcoming adversity build self-efficacy. Repeated failures, especially without support, can lead to feelings of inadequacy. | • Focus on effort over outcomes. View setbacks as learning opportunities. • Seek mentorship or support during setbacks to foster resilience |
Relationships | Healthy relationships based on love, respect, and encouragement reinforce self-worth. Toxic relationships damage self-esteem and internalize negative messages. | • Prioritize healthy relationships and set boundaries with those who are harmful. • Process previous unhealthy relationships through therapy or journaling. • Learn to recognize and choose partners or friends who support your growth. |
Internal Dialouge | A kind, encouraging inner voice bolsters self-worth. Harsh self-criticism and perfectionism damage it. | • Practice mindfulness to become aware of self-talk patterns. • Challenge negative thoughts with evidence or a more compassionate perspective. • Regularly engage in activities that foster a sense of competence and worth. |
Media & Societal Messages | Internalized messages about beauty, success, and worthiness can impact self-perception. | • Critically evaluate media messages and set limits on harmful social media content. • Cultivate a diverse social circle to see various examples of success and worthiness. • Focus on your own values and path, not societal expectations. |