# What Influences and Shapes Value Systems ?

| **Shaping Factor** | I**nfluence of Self Worth** | **How to Handle Healthily** |
| --- | --- | --- |
| Family & Upbringing | Values instilled by parents and caregivers become a blueprint. These might be positive, negative, or a mix. | - Critically examine values you were raised with, choose to keep those that align with your authenticity, and discard harmful ones. - Therapy to process how childhood values might be impacting current choices. |
| Life Experiences | Successes, failures, and life lessons shape what we find important. Major events may challenge existing values and lead to shifts. | - Reflective journaling: Examine how experiences have shaped your beliefs about what matters.  - Openness to evolving values: Growth means values might change as you learn and mature. |
| Role Models | Observing people we admire (mentors, community figures) and the values they embody influences our own. | - Intentionally choose positive role models who live in alignment with their values. - Reflect on their choices: Would I act similarly? What can I learn from them? |
| Culture & Community | Social norms, community expectations, and cultural messages shape our view of what's important. | - Explore various cultural perspectives to avoid narrow thinking about 'right' and 'wrong'. - Consciously choose communities that align with your values. |
| Personal Reflection | Critical thinking about our experiences and what truly motivates us helps us define own values. | - Values exercises: Explore lists and prompts to identify what truly matters to you. - Journaling focused on choices that made you feel most fulfilled or conflicted. |

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